We all have them. Like seeing the glass half full or empty. Or perhaps you are of the mind, guilty until proven innocent. Well we all have internal filters. These are like glasses we wear to see the world, trust vs mistrust. Or perhaps: you know of someone who has been swindled before so they will not take a chance with something new, it all ends the same anyway!
You see this often in relationships, people behave in ways to protect themselves as in the past this was the norm, so they treat others differently to make their 'theory' correct. Why invest in a new relationship if all you are doing is carrying these internal filters like pieces of luggage?
Recognising you are doing this is the first step, awareness is the key. The next step is to do something about it and break this filter, neutralise it and create a new empowering one that is applicable to your current situation and not related to a past boyfriend/girlfriend.
Just think of starting something new with a CLEAN SLATE, no history, baggage or hangups, (other words for internal filters!!) Just imagine the potential there would be if you intentionally went out of your way to begin it like this!
Incredible. This could also be said for starting anything new: a new job, home, neighbours, other relationships, your finances, your health (spiritual, physical, emotional).
This list is endless...
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